[Guys] A topic I'm sure we all wonder about...

by sophlightning305 on Sunday, November 16, 2008

Putting the spotlight on just the girls wouldn't be fair...soo, guys this is your chance to prove that you don't just look for hmmm... looks. What traits do you find most attractive (and yes looks can be in there) in a girl? These traits...prbbly like the girls' won't be the same as what our parents' generation was looking for. No longer is the story of the princess and the frog a story for just girls...maybe guys are now looking for good looking frogs too!

So, let's also shoot for a top 10 list! I hope we don't disgrace ourselves and just stop at the two that came first to my mind (and i'm sure is repeated in many guys here)...brains and brawn. hehe

People should leave their 10 items in the comment section, if you do not want your identity revealed please posted under No ID. I will eventually tally up the comments and stick it up for the guys...girls are just more controlled =P. And finally...results are out!

Top 10 List
1.) Trustworthy/Committed is our most voted for quality!...no playas plz, leaf that to the people who dunno how to spel
2.) Smart...we want the girls who can spell!
3.) Artistic...dunno, they voted for it so i'm putting it up
4.) Playful...not as in poking...virtual or otherwise, but genuinely fun to be around.
5.) Funny...Everybody's a comedian...
6.) Self-Confident/Self-Respect...if you dunno what this is go listen to arethra franklin
7.) Pretty/Beautiful...Odd, not hot but pretty or beautiful
8.) Creativity...Add some spice into everyday Life
9.) Caring...A hint of softness under that creatively decorated, funny, good-looking exterior
10.) And our number 10 (it was tied with many other ones) is Social...so you can ask us out on the first date (at least that's what i think the boys voting for it were thinking...)

Thank you for participating, I am sure it has dramatically changed the lives of many women...

29 comments:

Comment by eohcnrk on November 16, 2008 at 8:46 PM

hmm...i think if we are going to have something of this sort, we should allow for ppl to make nomination for qualities...and then perhaps have a poll so that people can vote for which qualities they want. once that's done, we can post an official list.

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 16, 2008 at 9:32 PM

1.) Smart...no need to be einstein but not your typical cheerleader either
2.) Funny...a sense of humor makes relationships fun!
3.) Flirty...just with that one guy tho (cuz i'm the jealous type lol)
4.) Main goal is more than just having money or making a name for herself.
5.) Self-confident
6.) Can make choices...gosh hanging out is so boring when you are choosing what to do and get the "I dunno...I'm indecisive *giggle giggle"
7.) Trustful...so can give herself to a guy completely
8.) Trustworthy...the other way around
9.) Pretty...specially the eyes
10.) Fit

 
Comment by Sujeeth on November 16, 2008 at 9:44 PM

1) Hot face
2) Hot body
3) Smart
4-10, see 1, 2, and 3

 
Comment by snakesaywhat on November 16, 2008 at 9:50 PM

1.) self respect, you have to respect yourself before demanding respect from a guys. This is also a sign of maturity.
2.) commitment, girl don't like cheating guys, so we don't like cheating girls neither. We also have to know that you'll be there for the kids, the poor and the cold.
3.) independent, don't depend on the guy to do everything.
4.) smart, clueless women make boring conversations.
5.) artistic, this is more of a personal preference.
6.) adventurous, not afraid to try. A lot of girls are afraid of this and that but that just disappoint us.
7.) ambitious, no housewives please, need to have career goals in life.
8.) playful, more fun, no one wants a couch potato. Yes, I agree with Joey, flirty is fun and admirable
9.) creativity, makes the relationship less boring.
10.) thoughtfulness, guys like cheesy stuff too! Have to know that you are caring and thinking all the time. I think a little extra thought in everything you do will matter a lot.

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 16, 2008 at 9:57 PM

gonna have to bump thoughtfulness and adventurous

 
Comment by Sujeeth on November 16, 2008 at 10:14 PM

Ok, so the previous post was obviously a joke (sorry if I've offended anyone).
So here's my real list:
1) Trustworthy
2) Intelligent
3) Career oriented (hopefully a professor, cuz that's what I'll be)
4) Hardworking
5) Good sense of humor
6) Awesome cook (mainly because I suck)
7) Beautiful (3 might contradict this)
8) Self-confident
9) Social
10) Decisive

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 16, 2008 at 10:34 PM

lol a professor...sexy sujee...i def agree with cooking...although i wanna be good at cooking too

 
Comment by Martias on November 16, 2008 at 10:38 PM

1)intriguing (not the kind that only lasts until the first glance back. a sense of mystery that lasts, even when I know you well)
2)intelligent (the special gleam in the eyes)
3)artistic/creative
4)attractive (it's all in the movement, the walk, the way you talk)
5)likes some of the same books/movies/plays as me (some, not all. conflict in tastes is good)
6)confident (astound me with your audacity)
7)athletic (outrun me and laugh)
8)caring
9)well-spoken (insult me without using the most common invectives)
10)witty (a good repartee is astoundingly attractive)

 
Comment by eohcnrk on November 16, 2008 at 11:39 PM

1 Tina
2 Tina
3 Tina
4 Tina
5 Tina
6 Tina
7 Tina
8 Tina
9 Tina
10 Tina

i know! mushy, but it's troo!

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 16, 2008 at 11:47 PM

that counts as 1...not 10 votes for tina...gosh that would be horrible if that made our top 10 list "Tina"

 
Comment by snakesaywhat on November 16, 2008 at 11:55 PM

hahahahahaha, funny, I bet tina logged into choe's account and put herself up there.

 
Comment by dohyun on November 17, 2008 at 12:42 AM

1. Faithful
2. Commitment
3. Loving
4. Open-minded
5. Loyal
6. Understanding
7. Humble-- Disclaimer: Humility doesn't mean you have to be self-pitying ( I think a lot of people think in lines of that whenever we think about humility) but rather have an objective idea of who they are. This implies to self-confidence, but not necessarily cockiness ( I hope that made sense... :\)
8. Independent-- I like WOMEN, not little girls. They have to be somewhat strong
9. dependent of me-- I guess its more of a healthy balance. I want them to be able depend on me whenever they need help...
10. Trustworthy-- there is no such thing as functional relationship without a sense of trust

 
Comment by Anonymous on November 17, 2008 at 12:43 AM

the previous list is a very religious one, and as much as we believe in it, how often do we actually abide to it?

 
Comment by snakesaywhat on November 17, 2008 at 12:44 AM

how is it religious?

 
Comment by Heanshi on November 17, 2008 at 1:26 AM

1. married
2. loyal
3. sensible
4. partially immature
5. considerate
6. humorous
7. trustworthy
8. 110+ IQ
9. compassion
10. artistic
sicne 1st was a joke
11. tiny (dont want a dino next to me)

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 17, 2008 at 7:42 AM

lol, a dino hehehe

martias, hmm i think the unifying theme of yours seems to be...Romantic?

 
Comment by Kevin, NeuEve Team on November 17, 2008 at 3:11 PM

I like a girl who's a "strong woman." In other words, someone who's free-thinking and assertive. Also, hard to get. :)

 
Comment by Kevin, NeuEve Team on November 17, 2008 at 3:15 PM

Jake, that one is "religious" because it repeats the same thing 5 fricking times.

It said:

1. Faithful
2. Commitment
5. Loyal
9. dependent of me
10. Trustworthy

Hmm... it makes u wonder if someone is bitter about a past relationship with someone who was unfaithful, uncommitted, disloyal, and untrustworthy???

 
Comment by seoj on November 17, 2008 at 8:47 PM

1) Knows how to be happy or have joy even during the grimmer situations
2) Smart enough
3) Not shy (because I am :/ - but being with someone that's not makes me open up a lot)
4) Knows how to think rationally/logically, not too swayed by emotions.
5) Pretty without makeup
6) Active/fun
7) Genuine Christian

man... 10 is a lot :/ so here's some of the more unimportant ones

8) Likes Korean food (or is Korean :P)
9) Artistic (but not emo)
10) Not easily scared by stupid things.

There's probably more, but I can't think of any more now. And notice how "Genuine Christian" covers most of the common ones :P How cheap of me, hohoho

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 17, 2008 at 8:50 PM

sir, I am your girl! I am 18, i like to think that I think rationally, am happy, can open you up, like korean food and look good without makeup.

My number is 224-723-2948. Please call so we can arrange a date!

 
Comment by seoj on November 17, 2008 at 8:59 PM

LOL sick, man.

okay okay #1: Must be a genuine female since birth.

 
Comment by snakesaywhat on November 17, 2008 at 9:01 PM

Is Joey hiding something??

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 17, 2008 at 9:10 PM

john...don't you think u set ur standards a lil high? Come on now, i'm 10/11 on the requirements here...

 
Comment by epfanne on November 17, 2008 at 10:59 PM

kevin, i thought you wanted a trophy wife :)

 
Comment by snakesaywhat on November 18, 2008 at 7:00 PM

I think can put artistic and creativity together?

 
Comment by Kevin, NeuEve Team on November 18, 2008 at 11:06 PM

lol, Ann what are you talking about! You must be confusing what I said. I'm pretty sure that I said I wanted to be a trophy husband!

 
Comment by eohcnrk on November 19, 2008 at 12:13 PM

hm...this list is vastly different from what I perceived...

 
Comment by sophlightning305 on November 19, 2008 at 12:15 PM

yah, none of ur list made top ten...=P

 
Comment by eohcnrk on November 19, 2008 at 12:18 PM

im glad you were quick to point that out ^^

hmm, at least one of those items has to be tied with number 10, no?